What if ADHD isn't the whole problem?

"If the person with ADHD would just get their ADHD under control, our relationship would be fine." Hi Reader, The above quote is a belief I will challenge every single time. I understand where this comes from. I've personally experienced it, and I even said it myself. When ADHD affects emotional regulation, communication, follow-through, and everyday responsibilities, the strain on a relationship can be enormous. But here's what I've learned, both as an ADHD coach and through 27 years of...